Looking back at different periods of my life, I realize that when I “thought” I was in control, those were the most destructive and stagnant times in my life. Don’t get me wrong, some of them were fun and free, but I didn’t really move forward in my relationships, my career or my marriage. But when I realize that most parts of life really aren’t in my control and let them unfold naturally, I see rewards overflow.

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